Finding Joy and Community in Shared Experiences
Natasha Bilau-Howie, an emergency nurse whose journey into the heart of storytelling began with a life-altering diagnosis, is powerful. In our recent episode of Co-Created, Tash delves deep into her experience of crafting a digital story, revealing not just the storytelling process itself but also the profound impact it has had on her personal journey. At the core of Tash's story is the notion of empowerment through vulnerability. As she recounts her experience navigating a brain tumour diagnosis, listeners are taken on a voyage through her emotions, challenges, and ultimately, her triumphs. This journey began when Tash was invited to a retreat by the Brain Tumour Foundation of Canada, where she connected with other survivors and caregivers, forming lifelong bonds and discovering the power of shared stories. During this retreat, Tash was introduced to digital storytelling—a concept she had not encountered before. Her initial trepidation soon gave way to excitement, as the workshop offered her a platform to express her experiences in a meaningful way.
Throughout Tash's narrative was the delicate balance between crafting a compelling story and grappling with the trauma associated with it. For many storytellers, especially those recounting painful experiences, the question arises: How much time should pass before sharing such narratives? Tash was transparent about the intensity of her emotions and the challenges of sharing her story so soon after her diagnosis. Yet, her willingness to embrace her vulnerability speaks volumes about her character and the healing potential of storytelling. The workshop culminated in a powerful screening at the International Digital Storytelling Festival in Greece, where Tash shared her story with fellow survivors. The experience was a profound connection with others who had walked similar paths. Each viewing evoked raw emotions and fostered deep connections among those present, showcasing how digital storytelling can serve as a bridge linking individuals faced with similar challenges.
As Tash's story unfolded, it became clear that her narrative was about more than just her own journey; it was a testament to resilience and the importance of community in healing. She expressed a desire for her story to help others in the brain tumour community, demonstrating a selfless motivation that goes beyond personal catharsis. This aligns with a broader theme in digital storytelling: the transformative nature of sharing one's story with the world. It allows not only for the storyteller’s healing but also provides solace and solidarity to those who may feel alone in their struggles. The narrative of finding joy amid adversity resonates deeply, revealing that even in the darkest times, light can be found. Tash’s story serves as a reminder that joy doesn't have to be overshadowed by pain; often, they can coexist and enrich our understanding of life.
Episode 33 Key Messages
• Tash's introduction and her journey of being diagnosed with a brain tumor
• The importance of community and connection in the storytelling process
• Navigating trauma and vulnerability while creating her digital story
• The emotional experience of screening her story in various settings
• Emphasizing the shared human experience through storytelling
• Finding joy and meaning amid adversity
• The therapeutic aspects of digital storytelling and personal growth
• Encouragement for others to embrace their stories and seek healing through sharing
Another pivotal aspect of Tash's experience was her ability to derive meaning from her journey, despite its inherent difficulties. Crafting her digital story allowed her to explore different facets of her life, including moments of joy and gratitude. Her reflections on the Greece trip were particularly poignant, marking a transformative segment of her journey where she learned to embrace the unpredictability of life after diagnosis. Tash’s experiences resonate with many who seek to create meaning from their own challenges, reminding us that through the act of storytelling, we become active participants in our healing process.
Ultimately, Tash's journey exemplifies the power of digital storytelling as a profound therapeutic tool. Her narrative serves not only as an exploration of her own experiences but also as an invitation for others to share and explore their stories. The act of coming together through shared narratives not only strengthens community ties but also fosters a collective understanding of resilience, support, and healing.
About our Guest
Natasha (Tash) Bilau-Howie has been an emergency nurse since 2020. She graduated with honors from McMaster with a degree in nursing in 2014. Wife and step mom to 2 daughters. Avid advocate, especially for marginalized communities. Aspiring comedian, writer, steward of kindness, mixed martial artist and powerlifter. Tash was diagnosed with brain cancer in 2023. She has completed treatment and is in the process of figuring out who she is now and what her new life looks like.
Instagram: Turbo_Tash
About Co-Created
Co-Created is a podcast that takes you behind the scenes of digital storytelling. On each episode, host Kristy Wolfe dives into conversations with the storytellers and facilitators who bring digital stories to life.
If this particular conversation resonated with you, tell a friend or a colleague about Co-Created or share one of the digital stories we were talking about. You can find the stories here.
Co-Created is presented by Common Language DST, digital storytelling facilitation training for health and wellness changemakers and is supported by the team at Snack Labs.
